Monthly Archive: November 2006

Bitter-sweet tonic

Back during my last term in University, the walk to school was sort of expensive. I had formed a habit of going to the local Tim Hortons to get a cup of coffee to warm me up during the cold months. You see, the gas station right next to where I was living had a full service Tim Hortons, and the lines moved quickly (except for the lunch hour), so stopping by was ridiculously convenient. Even if I didn’t go to that location, I found myself needed to drop by one of the on-campus stops to get my coffee fix. That’s why travelling to school became expensive for me.

Now that I’m working, the commute in is a lot less tempting. I mean, between the car-ride, the train, and the streetcar, there really isn’t a TH that’s totally accessible. That’s what I thought, anyway. As a result, I wasn’t buying drinks in the morning, and I was quite thankful. I knew there was one though that was 2 stops before mine on the streetcar route. I considered that one to be off the path, and didn’t pay much attention to it. I mean, going to that TH meant having to get off the streetcar; it would tack another 10-15 minutes on my commute time.

Oh, but then one day, I got off the streetcar early because I felt the urge to walk to work. With TH suddenly there, I dropped by for a coffee and bagel. By the time I got to work, I realized that it wasn’t so far off the path–after all, I could just hop back on the streetcar anyway. Later, when I drank the coffee, the liquid flowed down my throat, feeling almost like a bitter-sweet tonic that caused my pleasure centres to cry out with joy.

Hey, I’m exaggerating. However, that was some great coffee.

Ever since then, I’ve been dropping by more and more often. It’s still not a daily thing, and I don’t think it ever will be. However, the fact is I’m spending money again on something that I don’t really have to. Once again, I’m starting to develop a dependency. What the hell!

Fishy near-death experience

I wasn’t planning on posting again about the goldfish, but today we had a bit of a close call. Since Friday, my parents have purchased a bigger fishbowl along with two other goldfish to accompany Pedro. My father wanted to name them Peter, Paul and John…so to go along with Pedro, the new fish were finally named Pablo and Juan. Of course, we don’t know what the genders of the fish are, so it could all be for nothing.

Anyway, over the weekend, the fish looked like they were continually hungry. They were constantly at the top of the water, popping their mouths up and taking in water. We kept putting in fish food, and they would suck it in from the surface. I thought it was strange, but figured it was just fishy nature.

When I came home from work today, I complained to my family that the water was extremely cloudy. As well, Juan (Juanita?) was looking really pale. He was barely moving and floating close to the surface. The other two were still popping above water, gulping in water and air. I did a quick search on the Internet, and learned that they were either in oxygen-poor water, or ammonia-laden water. Truth be told, it was probably both. I told my dad that Juan looked like he was going to die and that we needed to change the water. So, we scooped out the fish and put them into a sink full of clean water. Poor Juan, he was almost floating sideways, looking quite pathetic. I really felt bad for him. I thought he was going to die. As my father scooped ‘em out, he commented on how nasty smelling the water was. The ammonia levels must have been poisoning the fish. No wonder the fish were gulping for air at the top; the water was polluted.

As my father cleaned out the bowl, I stood watch over the three fish. As they swam around in the clean water, the gulped in as much as they could. Juan in particular was “breathing” pretty heavily. Eventually, he started swimming in a normal vertical position. His recovery looked miraculous.

Right now, the fish are back in the bowl, swimming happily in clean water. I guess, since the bowl doesn’t have a filter or some sort of oxygen pump, the water will need to be replaced on a regular basis. I think my father seems very willing to change the water daily. They’re almost like his children, know what I mean? This whole fish thing is a learning experience for everyone.

I have someone to introduce to him

Over breakfast, somehow the topic came up that there’s a lot of interest in me among my parents’ friends. They’re always asking about how I’m doing with my career. In particular though, they’re asking about whether I’ve seeing anyone. Apparently there’s some interest in setting me up. Oh, no, not for themselves (I’m not interested in dating people that old), but for young females that they know. “I have someone to introduce to him” seems to be the phrase of choice–at least, it is in Tagalog. Also, it’s usually someone who’s living overseas.

I really don’t know whether it’s a joke or not. I mean, I know of this second-hand through my parents, and apprently my father thinks they aren’t kidding. Thankfully, his canned response is that they (mom and dad) don’t meddle with that kind of thing, as long as I introduce any girlfriends to them. Well, to be fair, it’s usually true–they don’t interfere. However, on occasion I’ll get a “haven’t you found someone yet?” That one phrase alone is enough bother me for the few hours after.

It’s good to know that there’s interest, but seriously, what’s the main basis for the interest? Obviously, it’s not because of my personality and such. It’s all about my career, social standing, and a bunch of other intangibles, which kind of bothers me. I mean, what defines me is much more than a job and an education. It’s funny, on the dates that I’ve been on, the emphasis has never been on career. It’s all about assessing personality, as it should be.

Err, of course, a lot of good that’s done me; I always end up with close friends more than anything.

Anyway…the search continues, I guess.

Pedro

My parents still manage to surprise me from time to time–not with anything material, but in terms of attitude. On Monday, as we sat at the dinner table, somehow it came up that we suddenly had a goldfish in the house. I was surprised when they said that because normally I’m very observant with things going on in the house. Sure enough, in the living room in a wide wine glass was a goldfish keeping still. The water level was only halfway up the glass, so the first thing I did was to fill up the glass a little bit higher to at least give the fish a bit more room to move.

See, on Saturday, they’d gone to a party, and the hostess gave away goldfish as thank you presents. Now, I was shocked to see that my parents managed to keep the thing alive for that long. They’ve never been all that keen on pets or anything that requires too much care. Hell, I would’ve figured that they’d flush the poor fishy as soon as they got it home–but no, there it was, still alive and kicking. They weren’t feeding it fish food at the time, if only because there was none in the house. Instead, it was living on crushed up crackers and biscuits (temporarily, at least). I convinced them to go and get some proper goldfish food. They did. Mom even got a bigger bowl for the fish. I’d asked her if the fish had a name. She had no clue, but when put on the spot she named him Pedro. Actually, we don’t know the sex of the fish, but Pedro stuck.

He’s now living a great life. My father pays close attention to his needs. He’s the focus of the living room, at least for the time being. Hopefully he’ll stick around for a good while.

No longer stressful

Scorpio (Oct. 24 – Nov. 22)

There is reason to believe that the life you lead no longer has to be so stressful. There is a big improvement in what the world can offer you. Something has been set in motion that will take you to where you yearn to be.

Daily grind

Damn. I’m sitting here with my somewhat broken laptop on my lap, straining to think of something to write about. I suppose you could say my life has been hitting a level of normalcy that I haven’t seen in a long time. Yeah, it’s a good thing on so many levels. I mean, I don’t want my stress levels to be fluctuating all over the place like they had in times past. At the same time, am I becoming a bit of a work-zombie? I wake up, I commute downtown, and I program like the code-monkey that I am. Then I commute back, eat dinner, watch a little TV, then zone out, only to do the cycle again the next day. At least weekends show a little bit more variety. I hung out with my friend this past Saturday to celebrate him getting a new job. We ate out and relaxed at Ten Ren for a good while. It was fun, but nothing revolutionary.

I suppose, I need to come to a level of acceptance that this is what life is like for most people. People need to earn a living in order to have the freedom to do what they want. And hey, I’m still at the beginning of the work path. I’ve still got some ways to go before I will have earned the right to rest on my laurels. Just need to keep working hard and the benefits will come naturally.

More random transit musings

I was planning on writing about some philosophical stuff that my coworker and I were talking about on the way to Kensington Market during lunch…but instead, I’ll leave some random thoughts I’ve had while riding transit.

- That guy over there smells of bad B.O. I wonder if he knows he smells. Makes me wonder if I’m generating any strong odours, myself.

- I’ve been sneezed on, been harassed by crazies, had newspapers rested on my head while the holder reads comfortably…and last night I can add “had cantaloupe dropped on him” to that list of misfortunes.

- If the train drivers don’t announce the stops, how will the nappers know when to rouse themselves from their shallow dozing?

- Does pumping classical music in certain stations really deter the young folk from loitering? Isn’t it possible that you end up with a problem of rowdy sophisticates loitering around instead?

- There are a lot of old people who pretend to not know and cut the line while waiting for streetcars. Do they feel entitled? Are they just unaware?

Not going to heaven

I was walking up Spadina with my coworker during the lunch hour. While waiting at for the light to change, a guy in his late teens directly comes up to me with a lot of enthusiasm and goes “hey man, if you give me a few pennies you will absolutely be going to heaven!”

I walked away.

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