Monthly Archive: November 2006

Tipping good service

One of the points of tipping at a restaurant is to encourage good service, right? So, if you get lousy service, I believe that you’re entitled to give a lousy tip. My mother seems to disagree.

We were over at the local Kelsey’s for lunch. Our server was polite enough when she was dealing with us. However, the times when she visited our table were very few. I wanted ketchup for my fries, but she never came around until well after my fries were done. The time from when I finished my drink up to when I got a refill was a good 10-15 minutes. All though might have been forgivable. However, when it came to dealing with the bill, that’s when things got ridiculous. From the point when I asked for the bill, to when I signed the receipt took a full 20 minutes. I never did see my server again after getting my drink refill, except when she was dealing with a larger table. I had to ask two different people for the bill. One of them brushed me off saying that the server hda to take care of it. Well, if there server was readily available I wouldn’t have asked her, right?

I wasn’t the only one unimpressed either. The tables around us were also looking around for the server, who had seemed to disappear into another dimension.

In the end I only gave a $1 tip on a $40 meal; we were simply made to wait too long. Walking out of the place, my mom told me that I was cheap. I argued that the service was shoddy, to which she replied that it’ll be even worse next time I go there. Well, to be honest, I have no plans to return. As well, I had no plans on rewarding the behaviour of abandoning your customers.

Guarding the poppy

A week or two ago, when I stopped by the mall, I passed by a table with a veteran sitting there selling poppies. I passed by without giving it much thought, but after I’d made my purchases I decided to go back and make a small donation. I’ve been wearing my poppy since then. I’ve been dutifully keeping an eye on it, making sure that it didn’t come off my jacket, as they’re known for doing. Coming out of the theatre after seeing Borat, I noticed that it fell off. I spotted it lying on the carpet, at the bottom of the escalators. I went back, and picked it up despite the fact that there had been people trampling all over it. I brushed it off and re-pinned it to my lapel.

Even though my family is one of immigrants, I’m not ignorant to the fact that the way I live my life today is a direct result of people making sacrifices during the wars of old. I’m thankful, and I guess keeping guard over my little poppy is perhaps the least I could do to express my gratitude. The veterans need us more than ever. As time passes, the wars fade in the conscience of the public. It can’t be helped; it’s fact of time, right. We need to make sure that those who did battle are not forgotten–not necessarily in name, but moreso in deed.

Weird things

RULES: Each player of this game starts off with 10 weird things/habits about yourself. People who get tagged need to write an entry of their own 10 weird habits/things as well as state this rule clearly. At the end you need to choose 6 people to be tagged and list their names. Don�t forget to leave a comment that says �You are tagged� and tell them to read your entry.

Anne tagged me earlier…so I guess I’m game. Just…hard coming up with 10 weird things/habits.

1. I can bend my thumb backwards. I’ve given people a “thumbs up” with the thumb bent back and gotten gasps of horror, leaving me wondering whether I said something horribly strange.

2. Moreover from #1, I am deceptively flexible. Um…at least, I was back then. I don’t think I’ve had any reason as of late to retest my capabilities.

3. My mind is a sponge full of useless/trivial information. It’s not like I plan on going on any game show any time soon, so I fear that this skill will never be put to good use.

4. I walk really slow. Walking from the parking lot to the train station, it’s normal for a good amount of people to pass me in a rush. I don’t care–I’m in no rush. Whatever, man. I often end up seeing those same people that passed me waiting for the next train on the platform anyway.

5. I don’t have a pet, but I believe that I’m really good with animals. They’re usually pretty calm around me. I think it’s probably because I steal their souls.

6. I really love cold weather. I would rather trek through snow then melt in nasty humid weather. It’s probably because I tend to sweat profusely in hot weather.

7. “Give it to Jason; he’ll eat it” seems to be a fun sport among people that I’ve lived with in the past.

8. I am very flatulent. Or, at least, I was in university. Just ask Keith or Henrick. Now, not so much. Perhaps my diet is improving.

9. I am a fan of a TV show aimed at young Japanese girls. Duh! You should know if you’re paying attention.

10. I am quite immovable when it comes to making me do something I don’t think I want to do.

Tagging 6 people, eh?….
Bah. See #10.

Restless at work

Eh, there are about three more hours of work left. Once again, I’m restless. Once work is done, I’m going to go home and have fucking birthday cake.

Chapter Twenty-five: Quarter Century

Oh, milestones.

I don’t think I’ve been in a totally celebratory mood today, not because I’m in a bad mood or anything, but today seemed more like any other regular day. Although, I’ll admit that I was largely restless all day. I didn’t want to be in the office at all.

This has been one hell of a year: graduation, Japan, work. The keyword for this year was “transition”, and by and large, I think the transition phase is just about over. I don’t know what the keyword for the next year will be, but if I were to guess it would probably be “progression”. I believe that good things will continue to happen to me. I also believe that even so, I’ll still find something to complain about.

Some things never change.

Monday, November 6, 2006

If today is your birthday

An insight into a delicate matter is exactly what you need � and exactly what you’ll get. You may not manage to get everything in perfect order, but you will end up feeling that, in a key area of your life, everything has been put right at last.

Scorpio (Oct. 24 – Nov. 22)

Your precarious position in a crucial area of your life will become more secure as Mars continues to travel through your sign. An exciting prospect will soon be delivered into your life.

Isn’t all that bad

Despite all of my complaining that I hate the way my life is heading, if I were to sit down and think about it, my life isn’t all that bad. I have my health. I have a job. I’m relatively comfortable.

No matter what, I will always find something to complain about. However, ultimately, I recognize that I’m doing well for myself.

Inching closer

You know, as I inch closer and closer towards my birthday–one of ‘em milestone birthdays at that–I’m feeling like I’m getting more and more antsy. As of late, part of my mind has been going into overdrive, analysing and re-analysing my life. Doing so is mentally exhausting. I think, more than anything, I need some time off to get away from “the world” and to let go of any worries–even if it might only be for a few days. I think that what I would benefit from most if I do so is the ability to refocus and gain perspective of what is important.

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