Category Archive: domestic

Getting the house in order

Maybe it’s a refection of where my life is at the moment, but my condo has been in a state of disarray for the past few months. No, it’s not dirty, but more untidy than anything. For the longest time I haven’t had that much time to get it organized. There were some weeks where I was out every night. The few nights that I had to myself were ones where I just needed to rest and slack. Things have accumulated to the point where it’s now a bit overwhelming.

Yeah yeah, I can hear it now: “I don’t understand how anyone can let things get so untidy. How do you live such a horrible and irresponsible life?” Whatever. Keep your judgments to yourself.

I’m planning on using this week to get things in order. If I have to pretend that I’m having company over, then that’s the tactic I will use. The important thing is that I get on it. Having my place in this state isn’t helping with the energy flow. Maybe this is just a reflection of other things. Who knows? Point is, I need to get my house in order–in more ways than one.

Key lime pie

Yes, the pie turned out really well. Tasted really awesome, though it was perhaps a little bit sweet. There’s no need to add extra sugar to the crust; the graham crackers are sweet enough. Also, there was no need to add green to the filling, but I felt like adding two drops just to tint it ever so slightly. I wouldn’t have topped it with meringue, but I had no intention of storing the egg whites.

Aunts from New York are coming on the weekend. I think lemon pie is appropriate.

Declaration of order

Ah, you’d think with all of this increased domestic time I’d have actually taken advantage and cleaned this place up. Umm…well…can’t say I did. Too many distractions around here. Thing is, the situation around here is getting a bit out of hand. I really need to ensure that I’m ushering in fall with a good state of order around me. I need to have good energy going around here. All of the clutter is not helping that.

So, I’m declaring that tomorrow will be a day to get all my things in order. Stamped it, declared it. I refuse to live this way.

Pride in my living space

I’ve been saying for a while that I wish I had an extra day to get some proper housework done. With the civic holiday upon us, I made sure to not let this opportunity slip through my fingertips. I don’t think I completed everything that needed to get done, but I did get a fair amount out of the way. Perhaps this is of the few times you’ll read me writing this, but I am ridiculously happy that I got around to mopping the kitchen, living room, and bathroom properly. The floors look great again. Also, seeing as how I don’t use all four sides of the dining room table all that often, I’ve pushed it off to the side. I took two of the chairs and put them up to the breakfast bar. The result is that there’s a larger amount of open flooring now. It’s making my living room look a lot bigger. I could almost be fooled into believing that I could fit another cushy living room chair in here.

Things are almost orderly, and it feels good. God knows why it’s not in this state more often, you know? There are still some areas of this place that need some reconsideration. There’s an ugly computer desk in the corner of the living room that’s just being used to hold small books and random junk. I really want to dump that thing and put a big potted plant there. There’s a stack of boxes in my bedroom occupying a space that could take a shelf or stand of some sort. And Jesus, after all this time, I really need to get my dishwasher hooked up. All it’s doing is just sitting there looking pretty. Crazy, eh?

Anyway, maybe it doesn’t seem like it at times, but I do take pride in my living space. I worked hard to get to this point. I need to make sure things are presentable–not just for other people, but for myself.

Cleaning day

Hey, so remember that thing where if you clean your place a little bit each day you won’t end up being overwhelmed by having to clean everything all at once? Yeah, that didn’t happen. And now on my designated cleaning day I’m overwhelmed. I did make a bit of progress, but aesthetically I don’t feel like I even made a dent. Damn. I guess there’s tomorrow, but…maaaaaaan.

WFH

I know there are a lot of people that relish the thought of being able to work from home, but personally it’s something that I wouldn’t be able to stand for an extended period. It’s something that I can do now and then, but if I was asked to do it regularly I’d probably go insane. I can’t be the only one that feels this way, right?

First of all, I like having a separation of my domestic realm and my professional realm. A bit of overlap is inevitable, but for the most part I don’t want the two worlds to be too close together. Once there’s overlap, if I were to continually work at home I’m afraid that my sense of sanctuary will become filled with stress. Where’s the good in that? Those few days when I work at home, I find that I end up not leaving the place all day. It’s easy to get a bit of cabin fever as a result. For that matter, in terms of work, being at home means that there are a lot of potential distractions. Conversely, if I end up getting a bit absorbed in something related to my home, work itself becomes the distraction. If I don’t leave this place, it means that I don’t have any proper face-to-face social interaction. It can get boring here without someone to talk to.

Having a workplace to commute to is great for a couple of reasons. It allows me to see a different part of the city that I wouldn’t travel to otherwise. It forces me to get outside and get some fresh air. It means I can connect with the city and tap into the urban conscience. Travelling increases the chances I’ll get a bit more exercise than I normally would. Being in the city allows me to see people. Yeah, I have introverted tendencies, but there’s something about a crowd of city-dwellers that’s somewhat comforting.

So, anyway, leading up to Mother’s Day we’re monitoring the site again during some odd hours. Due to the late shift, we’re being allowed to work from home. This is why I’ve been lounging around at home today, and I’ll be doing the same thing tomorrow. It really isn’t so bad, but I can’t do it for an extended period. Truthfully, I’m looking forward to going back to a normal schedule after the holiday. Thing is, the period between now and then is going to be rather crazy. More on that later, I guess…

To a clean state

Upon getting my own place, I told myself that I would never let it get to a point where cleaning up is a horribly tough prospect. I figured that as long as I do a little bit every day to keep things somewhat organized things won’t get far too disorganized. For the most part I’ve kept it up. Over the past month or two though I’ve gotten so busy that cleaning up has been pretty low priority. Even though things were kind of untidy I just told myself that things weren’t horribly bad. A little bit here, a little bit there: it wouldn’t have been that hard to return to a clean state. And that’s how things just kept piling up. Not much of a problem if I wasn’t expecting anyone, right? Well, a few days ago I was told that I’d be hosting Easter dinner. Circumstances are such that my parents aren’t able to cook at their house. So, it was mom’s idea to have dinner over at my place. I don’t mind at all. I mean, I haven’t hosted people over here in a good while. Of course, this means that I’ve had to clean this place up.

I’ve been up since the early hours just trying to get things in order, and it’s been tough. Especially for the first few hours, it really felt like I wasn’t making any progress. I think part of the problem is a lack of proper storage for random things. If there’s something I need more of here, it’s a bunch of drawers or shelves or containers that I can use to stash things away in. Everything needs a place–even little bits of clutter. I’ve accumulated a lot in the past while. I’ve had to send large amounts of it to recycling; a lot of it has been shredded as well. There have also been a lot of distractions making it hard to focus on the task at hand. At this point, late in the day, I’m not entirely happy with the current state of things. I’m going to use tomorrow morning to rush to get it all into shape. Going to rock tomorrow, for sure.

Shredding and shelving

I’ve been summoned a couple of times to head over to my parents’ place to work on clearing out a lot of my old stuff that’s still lying around the house. Today my mother wanted me to work on getting my textbooks out of my room and into my condo. I had no problem with that, but since I didn’t have a place to put the books I headed over to Ikea to get a bookcase. Man, that place is like an amusement park. There were a large amount of families, just strolling about the showrooms. I was off to the side when a bunch of children came and sat down on two chairs beside me. The parents asked them if the chairs were comfortable. The children cheerfully answered, “yeeeeeeah!” The mother sat down on the chair and opined that they weren’t that comfortable, to which the little girl insisted “But, I think they’re comfortable!” I had to smile at that. I ended up getting a Billy bookcase as well as a couple of dishes, a Lazy Susan to give me better access to all of the spices I’ve got in the cupboard, and a couple of new pillows for the couch. Yeah, I’m currently reclined on the couch making use of the awesome new pillows. Anyway, I somehow managed to haul a 64 lb. flat-pack back up to my unit and assembled the bookcase it with ease. I placed the bookcase between the couch and the window. It looks appropriate there, but to be honest with it there my living room is now starting to look mildly crowded. No, it’s not horribly cramped yet, but it’s certainly cozy in here.

So, anyway, with the case assembled I finally headed over to visit my parents. Prior to gathering the textbooks, mom insisted that I tackle some piles of old bills and other papers. I agreed and brought the shredder up to my room. As I was going through, I was simply shocked at how I had a tendency to horde things that had no use anymore. For example, why did I have pay stubs from 2002? Hanging onto them couldn’t possibly have had any value even two years after the fact, much less 8 years on. There were a couple of things that could have had some sentimental value, like some certificates from high school. Again though, why do I need a certificate saying that I passed grade 12 French? Bah. Old bills were well represented. Cell phone bills from 2003 were kind of interesting. Some of the envelopes had ads for phones that were coming out back then. As much as they’re outdated by today’s standards, back then they were amazing. In the end, I was able to shred 2.5 garbage bags full of old stuff. I honestly feel relieved to have all of that purged.

After shredding, and having a bit of dinner I finally got to the textbooks. I started bagging them, but was quickly overwhelmed by how heavy the books were. Perhaps unintuitively, those books were a heck of a lot heavier than the encyclopedia books I transferred two weeks ago. After stuffing a bag I tried carrying the thing on my shoulder. I swear, I felt like my shoulder was just going to break under all of the weight. Figuring that it would make my trek from the car to the elevator pretty miserable I decided to lighten the load and not bother to even attempt to get everything in one go; two bags of books was enough for today. Whatever I brought is already shelved and looking fancy. I think that’s one reason that I didn’t bother selling off all of my books back in university. As much as I could have made a few extra bucks I figured that the books would at least look good on a shelf. Some of these books are already almost a decade old. Crazy! Having these books in the living room kind of makes me feel like I’m projecting a slightly professional or tech minded persona. I wonder if anyone will be fooled? Hmm.

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