I posted this message on Twitter earlier this morning. I figure I might as well ask it here as well.
Am I wrong to be anti-social on social media?
That’s an interesting question. I mean, I suppose the act of being on one of the new-fangled social media networks means that by definition I’m attempting to be part of the whole “social” movement. In my case, I’m still not on Facebook (I will continue my resistance just because) but I’ve got my Twitter account. Even so, I’m finding it difficult to be social. How can I describe this? Twitter and blogging has a general point of self-promotion. In terms of blogging, I’m expanding my thoughts into paragraphs and posting the results out on the Internet for everyone to see. In terms of Twitter I’m pushing out my thought bubbles to my followers and it’s up to them to decide if they want to keep following or not.
Some days, it kind of feels like I’m not using these platforms to their full potential. There are a lot of bloggers out there that have many readers and actively encourage new visitors to become regulars as well. I don’t seem to do that. After all this time this blog is still a completely personal thing: I don’t write to attract readers. That appears to be contradicted the fact though that I’m part of various groups that give me a bit more exposure. Though I can’t say I’m doing much to foster links with others to encourage incoming traffic.
Same goes for Twitter, I guess. Most of my tweets are about my daily life observations. I’m honestly not sure how that would be worth following. And yet, I’m kind of envious of the people that manage to attract big readerships–though not enough to actually do something about it.
I guess you can say I’m kind of experiencing some social media angst. I’m using these tools purely for personal reasons, so why should I care who’s reading, right? Of course, though, the ego would totally like validation and someone telling me that yes, what I have to say is actually interesting.
No matter. To be honest, I believe that the best thing I can do for myself it just to continue doing what I’m doing because in all honesty I feel like I’ve got a good thing going. In the end, that’s all that matters, right?



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