Over at a forum that I visit frequently, I came across a post from someone currently going through first year university woes. She spoke about not doing so well in some of her courses, which was a big difference from her days in high school where everything seemed to come naturally for her. When I read that, I completely understood where she was coming from and how she was feeling because I felt the same way. It almost seemed like the words she wrote down could have come from my hands.
It’s so crazy to think about it: my undergrad career began 7 years ago. Right from the beginning, it was tough to juggle it all because I had a bad work ethic. In high school, I really didn’t have to work hard, so university was definitely a shock. Looking back, I can’t believe how lazy I was. It’s almost embarrassing now. Well, due to all that, I didn’t do so well early on. I felt like I’d suddenly been beaten with the stupid stick. I felt inadequate. There were several times that I wanted to give up and just run away from it all. I didn’t though; for better or for worse, I stuck with the programme. It wasn’t really until later on that I clued in to the fact that I had to change the way I worked.
You know, I’d never get the stellar marks that I did in high school, but at some point I became at peace with that. I found the equilibrium point where the effort I put in would give the best returns. There was a line that I found where any more effort than that wouldn’t have made much difference, so I cut off those diminishing returns in lieu of having more time for myself. Me and my like-minded friends had it down to an art. Interestingly enough, once this balance was all figured out, my marks naturally went up. My intelligence level didn’t really go up or down during this time. It all just clicked: this is how you play the game.
Anyway, because I felt so familiar with what this person on the forum was going through, I sent her a private message telling her about my experience. I wanted to encourage her and tell ensure her that it’s not a matter of intelligence but of fortitude. University can easily make you feel stupid, but it doesn’t mean that you’ve suddenly become less intelligent from the moment you stepped onto campus grounds. I hope she got the message.


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